“Life is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming.”
Today would have been Myrna Loy’s birthday, which is as close to a national holiday as it gets in classic movie circles. Everybody loves Myrna because there’s nothing not to love. Even the little things.
I grew up watching Myrna Loy in many of her movies, introduced to her on television as I was all the classic stars I fell in love with as a child. My earliest memories of Ms. Loy are of her as Nora Charles in The Thin Man movies where she co-starred with the incomparable William Powell. For years I didn’t know her name but I loved everything I saw her in. Her glamour, her style, her unique delivery – natural, funny, sharp – the little choices she made in her portrayals of sophisticated, yet relatable women that added so much to each and every film she was a part of. She was Hollywood’s biggest star, the undisputed queen of tinsel town in her prime, yet managed to play every single role in a manner that made her every woman, one we could all recognize as ourselves. And, it must be said, she frequently stole scenes from the greatest in Hollywood.
I recently did a post on William Wyler’s, The Best Years of Our Lives (1946) as part of a blogathon dedicated to Dana Andrews. I chose to limit my discussion in that post to the three main characters in the film, the three veterans who return from war and are faced with a changed world. You can access that post here, if interested. I now have to mention Ms. Loy’s performance in the film. She plays Millie Stephenson, wife to Al (played by Fredric March), one of the three veterans. The Best Years of Our Lives has a superb cast and Myrna Loy gets top billing, which is testament to her popularity.

A great presence, Myrna enhances each and every scene she’s in Best Years. I mention my favorite scene in the previous post I did on this film but I’m mentioning it here again. It’s one of my favorites in all of film – the wonderfully touching scene when Al first returns home (The Homecoming), they see each other and embrace without a word. A long marriage, an established love rekindled. It wouldn’t work without her – an equal to the power of Fredric March. I must mention I absolutely adore the brief shot that precedes the embrace in the couple’s hallway. As Millie calls out to her children to see who was that at the door, realizing when she gets no answer that it can only mean her husband has arrived, she is shown from behind setting the table, her body freezes a moment and we can all but feel her heart begin to pound. By the time she steps out into the hallway where she can see him we are all blubbering. Wonderful acting. The little things.
However fabulous and memorable, that’s just one scene of many where the slightest of gestures or looks or quips make her performance so memorable – like the familiar, raised eyebrow, the awkward hesitations, or the way she keeps count, with a fork, of the drinks her husband consumes. Peripheral but ever-present, those little things. I have to mention another scene I love in Best Years where she doesn’t utter a word but speaks volumes. Her husband now home she makes him breakfast in bed. As she comes in with the tray she demonstrates how nervous she is, awkward, out of the habit of having him there. Loy pauses, doesn’t look at him, an awkward glance perhaps, a side step here, an adjustment there. It’s wonderful acting in a manner unique to her, I think. Understated, simple, sincere and oh so sophisticated – always.
I just love her performance in this film, but I warn I’ll say that throughout this post. Myrna Loy was typecast as “the perfect wife” after her performance in The Best Years of Our Lives. Typecasting a star and actress of her caliber is too bad for her as well as her audience. But it still didn’t negate her extraordinary talent no matter what role she played or whose wife she was onscreen. Nor did it seem to affect the fact she never took what didn’t matter too seriously.
“Some perfect wife I am. I’ve been married four times, divorced four times, have no children, and can’t boil an egg.”
In Mr. Blandings Builds His Dream House, Loy co-stars with Cary Grant, as his wife of course. Mr. Grant is one of the greatest screen legends of all time. A gifted actor and comedian. One of my absolute favorites and something to look at to boot. Also in this movie is another A-lister, the supremely talented Melvyn Douglas. Yet, it’s Myrna Loy’s scene where she’s explaining to the painters what colors she wants for the new house that is most memorable to me. Again, her brilliant delivery, the nonchalant way she says everything is funny, truthful and convincing. Honest. Who else could do that in such a manner?
Just wonderful – the way she waits for the painter to show he understands her very specific instructions when she describes the white color for the kitchen, the way she looks at the piece of yarn. It’s the little things.
The Thin Man
“Nora of “The Thin Man” was different . . . Nora had a gorgeous sense of humor; she appreciated the distinctive grace of her husband’s wit. She laughed . . . at him and with him when he was funny. What’s more, she laughed at herself. Besides having tolerance, she was a good guy. She was courageous and interested in living and she enjoyed doing all the things she did. You understand, she had a good time, always.”
I’m not going to try to explain how fabulous she is in The Thin Man films because that quote says it all. I’ll only add that because Nora had a “good time always,” so do we. Myrna Loy is, in these films, even in the lesser of the series I have to say, half of one of the greatest, most memorable screen couples in film history. I’ve never met anyone who doesn’t love Nick and Nora or discussed film with anyone who doesn’t mention this pair with deep affection and appreciation. Of course, that’s also due to the hilarious, debonair, wonderful, William Powell. They are a perfect pair. It’s worthy of note that Loy and Powell made fourteen pictures together. I’d say there was some kind of chemistry there. Their first movie together was W. S. Van Dyke’s, Manhattan Melodrama in 1934 and last, George S. Kaufman’s, The Senator was Indiscreet in 1947. All great outings, by my estimation, because they never fail to entertain. But none compare to the duo as Nick and Nora Charles.
No matter how many times I see it, her deadpan delivery of the, “Waiter, will you serve the nuts” line never fails to breaks me up. I can only imagine the fun they must have had making this series of films. As a comedian, Loy never tried hard, it seems, never tried to steal a scene, never made a terrible effort to deliver a funny line. It was, in fact, the matter-of-fact manner with which she spoke that made the exchanges between her and Powell so funny.
Oh, yes. I might as well mention another obvious – aside from the way Loy could convey a lot onscreen by the simplest of gestures, she was also adept at extreme physical comedy. With the simplest of gestures, looks – sometimes scathing but filled with humor, sympathy or love, able to break your heart or break you up with equal energy – but she could do the pratfalls and trips with the best of ’em too. Her entrance in The Thin Man is one of the all-time great character introductions.
I recently also Jack Conway’s, Libeled Lady (1936) again, another Loy-Powell coupling, but this time with the added bonus of Jean Harlow and Spencer Tracy. Not too shabby.
Libeled Lady is a delightful romantic comedy. Interestingly, along with Grand Hotel, one of the few films to receive an Academy Award nomination for Best Picture without receiving any other nominations. Myrna Loy plays the ‘Libeled Lady,’ Connie Allenbury, a rich, spoiled brat (although she’s really not bratty), who’s labeled a “Husband Stealer” in the headlines and files suit against the paper that’s smearing her name.
The editor of the paper, Haggerty, played by Tracy, his long-time intended, Gladys, played by Harlow and the paper’s representative, libel attorney, Bill Chandler, played by Powell put forth a pretty complicated scheme to catch the “international play girl” in a compromising situation so she is forced to drop the libel suit. Anyway, fun ensues with all four leading players fun to watch. Harlow, Powell and Tracy supply the screwball elements with Harlow and Powell supplying most of the real laughs although Powell’s performance is tops in this one – his broad style of comedy kills me. Anyway, what Myrna brings to the table as the Libeled Lady are the glamour, style and heart of the movie.
I might as well add my favorite scenes in Libeled Lady are those between Myrna Loy and William Powell. They just had IT. Here’s an example, one of my favorite scenes of all of their movies together, “Have you been proposed to much?” (Spoiler!)
A fun bit of trivia with regards to Libeled Lady and its cast – Reportedly, while shooting the movie, the four stars had become close friends, and William Powell even gave up his old habit of hiding out in his dressing room between scenes so he could join in the fun with the rest of the cast. One of the biggest jokes was a running gag Spencer Tracy played on Myrna Loy, claiming that she had broken his heart with her recent marriage to producer Arthur Hornblow Jr. He even set up an “I Hate Hornblow” table in the studio commissary, reserved for men who claimed to have been jilted by Loy. (IMDB)
It’s unfathomable to me that Myrna Loy was never nominated for a competitive Oscar. She was awarded a special lifetime achievement Oscar in 1991 “In recognition of her extraordinary qualities both on screen and off, with appreciation for a lifetime’s worth of indelible performances.” A great recognition but a gross understatement.
Myrna Loy made 129 feature films – an incredible and prolific career by anyone’s standards. I don’t think I’ve seen the majority of her films. None of her earliest work in the 1920s, for certain. But I have seen the majority of those she made from the early 1930s through her television work. She was one the greatest movie stars ever and one of Hollywood films’ greatest actresses, I can say without reservation. Perhaps most worthy of admiration, however, is the life she dedicated to causes she believed in offscreen. She fought against the House un-American Activities Committee, against discrimination in housing, exposing segregation in federally funded programs during times when it was not the popular thing to do, among many other things.
[Challenging MGM bosses in the 1930s] “Why does every black person in the movies have to play a servant? How about a black person walking up the steps of a courthouse carrying a briefcase?”
Myrna Loy made the little things count in her films and the big things count in her life. If you’ve seen her you love her. It’s that simple.
Myrna Loy – the little things.
SO perfect, Aurora! Great breakdown of Myrna Loy’s talent overall and a good summary of her collection of work. Hope you enjoy my THE THIN MAN blog to honor #SUTS tribute to Myrna Loy. But I gotta say, you are one serious writing machine lately! whew!
LOL! I hope that’s not a bad thing. I’m heading over to your Thin Than post as soon as I can today. Work is interfering with my blogathon fun.
Thanks, Kellee!
She was Class. @Aurora, you’re right… it’s the little things that spoke volumes with her. @Kellee, heading over to your blog in a few!
A sophisticate we could all relate to. Thanks for stopping in, Tonya!
Wonderful (and wonderfully detailed) write-up on Ms. Loy. Why don’t parents name their daughters Myrna and more?! Hope you’ll be watching Best Years of Our Lives tonight!
Joel – thanks for your comments and for stopping by. Am hurrying home from work. It will be the third time in two weeks that I see that one.
Aurora
Naming a daughter Myrna is like naming a son Zeus, Odyseuss, or Hercules. Or Sue.
One of my favorite “little things” moments with Loy comes in “The Best Years of Our Lives”. It’s the scene where Teresa Wright announces to Loy and Frederic March that she’s in love with Dana Andrews and is going to break up his marriage to make him happy. After Wright tells her parents they’ve always had a storybook marriage and never had any trouble, Loy, who’s been silent most of this scene (March had been the one arguing with Wright), just looks up at her husband and ruefully says, “Never had any trouble,” and follows by talking about how often she and March have said they’ve hated each other and had to fall in love all over again. As written, it may sound like a cliched line, but it’s backed up not just by the hints of trouble we’ve seen in their marriage (caused by his drinking) but also by Loy’s calm, understated yet regretful tone.
At any rate, this was another great write-up, and I look forward to more!
YES! Another fave – “how many times did we have to fall in love all over again?” Love her! Thanks for stopping by. What a movie!
Aurora
I love all the pictures you’ve put together! And the clips too. That homecoming scene from TBDOOL tears my heart out every time. I also love the video of funny lines from Thin Man – my personal favorite is from Song of the Thin Man when Nora is picking up all this musician slang and she says to one of the thugs, “Get lost, you washed up rinky dink!” Classic!
http://thegreatkh.blogspot.co.uk/2012/08/myrna-loy-august-2-on-tcm.html
She was so great! Thanks, Margaret.
I always love when Nora flies across the room in some fabulous peignoir to offer succor to the distressed ingenue. They vary it in Shadow, she throws herself into the melee to protect Nick from gunfire. Fortunately, since Nick Jr. had been teething on the pistol, Daddy had already removed the bullets!
Love your comments! Yes! Love everything you note. Simply fabulous!
Aurora
Fabulous post. Myra Loy can do no wrong in my eyes. I think she’s one of the best comedic actresses ever.
100% agree!
Aurora
This was a great post on Myrna. I really like Myrna. She just had IT.
Agree 100% and thank you.
Aurora
I’m glad you enjoyed my Tarzan piece! I’m also a fan of Myrna and really think that we all should try to behave a little like Nora (always having fun). First I must watch more films with her an The Best Years of Our Lives and Libeled Lady are in the line, specially thhe last one for having Jean, too!
It`s easy to find a translator to Spanish for your blog. Some blogs even can translate to more than 20 languages!
Kisses!
Have to look into that. Thanks, Le!
And DEFINITELY watch those films.
Aurora
Aurora–
Myrna is one of my all time favorites. I adore her films with William Powell and Cary. But I think it’s her performance as Millie that ultimately won me over. Although it’s a small role it’s very powerful. That homecoming scene rips me to shreds every single time. And Al and Millie’s relationship is so real. Nothing glossy and Hollywood about it.
Thanks so much for this wonderful piece.
Oh– and Libeled Lady is one of my favorites. So damn funny!
What wasn’t Myrna great in? Really one of the best!
Thanks, Jill.
Aurora
Watched Robert Osborne’s interview with the wonderful Peter O’Toole (again!) the other evening, Osborne’s theory about the Oscars is that the people who never give a bad performance get overlooked. As O’Toole put it, he’s the biggest loser, but at least he was getting nominated! I think Osborne cited Edward G. Robinson and Stanwyck, but Myrna, Cary Grant, Hitchcock and Alan Bates are all evidence that the Academy is not about excellence!
The house colours scene in Blandings is most famous, but my fave is when she loses it with her husband – Myrna goes off on Cary! She even heckles his dimple, so funny.
YES! LOVE THAT! 🙂
And genius director Wyler cuts from Myrna to her daughter’s reaction, he knew that Myrna Loy didn’t need to be on camera to hold a scene. Does she invent bacting with her 1st scene? And then does it again after her daughter announces her career as a homewrecker is over, the scene ends on Myrna’s back, sitting silently @ the kitchen table, caring. Perfect calm, maternal centre. Especially when compared to her husband’s bluster! March & Lou should have dome more together. He’s no Bill Powell, though!
And genius director Wyler cuts from Myrna to her daughter’s reaction, he knew that Myrna Loy didn’t need to be on camera to hold a scene. Does she invent bacting with her 1st scene? And then does it again after her daughter announces her career as a homewrecker is over, the scene ends on Myrna’s back, sitting silently @ the kitchen table, caring. Perfect calm, maternal centre. Especially when compared to her husband’s bluster! March & Loy should have dome more together. He’s no Bill Powell, though!